How does one succeed in life?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has anyone shared his wife with a friend? How was it?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Hangs out with loser friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

I’ve often wondered why fans aren’t deployed on GBBO during warm weather? I’ve seen too many desserts melt (and bakers too…). (I live in Pompano Beach and we try to use fans in lieu of AC as much as possible).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Ask yourself:

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Do most men prefer curvy women or skinny women?

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

What are the most common signs that a partner will cheat before it happens?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

That's it for today.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What are some things that normal people do that religious people call sins?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.